
I am new to Blogger, so for my first blog I will be writing a bit about myself. My name is Amanda, but you can call me Mandy. I am 17 years old and I live in San Antonio, Texas. One of the main issues in my life today would be my life struggle with Epilepsy. I do as much as I can to alert others about Epilepsy and what it is. There are many misconceptions about this condition or disease. I have struggled with Epilepsy for the past (almost) 5 years, but I am refusing to let Epilepsy rule my life... which can be a bad thing sometimes. For instance, when I decide "Heck with it, I'm going to the amusement park today even though I'm having seizure symptoms!". Like I said, I'm always trying to live life as a normal teenager.
I am a confusing case, because my doctors have never been able to pin-point the exact area on my brain that caused this whole mess. I had my first seizure in 7th grade; I was in the back of a friend's car on our way to her basketball game. We'll just call my friend Suzy... Anyway, Suzy and her father basically knocked on our door at home, and left me there. Not waiting to see if I was okay. Just in a rush to get to some stupid YMCA game. How sweet? I know. After that day, many other problems arose. Hormonal issues, migraines (some of the worst you could ever imagine), nausea spells, etc. I would love to tell you all of my problems but that would take up a whole screen :). Eventually I started having random seizures. At first I was experiencing colorful "auras". "These are only migranes," as described by one of my most unhelpful neurologists, "nothing to worry about". We weren't getting the answers we were looking for but me and my family grasped to any information on my health that we could. He put me on a great big cocktail of medications, but nothing worked. Numerous MRI's and other tests were done but nothing showed up except for a red herring... A small pituitary tumor that turned out to be something completely harmless. We were handed to doctor after doctor, even out of city. Each one, washing their hands of me and passing me on. I lost weight, gained weight, developed rashes and blisters. Each medication ahd it's own horrible side effects. Some of the worst were hallucinations, anxiety attacks and extreme depression phases. I began to have larger seizures. They started with staring, licking of the lips, and soon after anyone noticed that I would scream and go unconscious, convulsing on the bathroom or livingroom floor. By this time it was halfway through my 8th grade year. I had to become a homebound student because the seizures became so frequent. Still to this very day I am homebound, and it is already my 11th year in high scool. I have tried to return as a full-day student but I am really just too sick. The medication has completely ruined my immune system making it very easy to catch whatever colds that are going around. This is too much on top of being an Epileptic teenager. Finally I was passed on to Dr. Tomasovic who gave us a dead on explanation. It was indeed epilepsy... As if we didn't already think this. He started to help by putting me on Trileptal. I was seizure free for almost 3 months, but when the seizures came back, my doctor became frustrated because no matter how many MRI's I took, he could not find the cause. He referred me to my current (and hopefully last) Epileptologist/Neurologist, Dr. Szabo, who opened great doors for me. I no longer had to sit on the examination table trying hard to explain my symptoms without sounding like a complete idiot. He had seen it all before and this was reassuring. We have still have frustrations with the medications, and many hospital visits, but he has always taken great care of me. I thank God for this everyday! He has recently chose to give me the options for two different surgeries. One would be invasive brain surgery (which I have turned down). The other being VNS surgery. I will tell you right now that my seizures are less frequent and smaller, but my big issue is that the side effects of my medications are unbearable and jeopardizing my health. I have gained a significant amount of weight, my blood pressure gets high, and I have been experiencing bad anxiety attacks and depression. With that being said, I obviously agreed to VNS Therapy, and I had the VNS implanted last Wednesday, on the 5th of May. To read more about my recovery check out my next blog!!! I will be posting as much as possible about this new experience, and hopefully my information will be significant to someone out there! You are not alone!
This really, really is an unfair illness.
ReplyDeleteI can't believe the grief you've been through to try to get a diagnosis let alone help. It's shocking to think that your experiences seem comparable with our experiences with a VET - NOT A DOCTOR! It seems there is a resignation to do nothing.
I really hope things change for you. I wish you all the best, and as you say "You are not alone!"
Thank you for your feedback, it means a lot to me. It was very hard to get correctly diagnosed. This is a very compact version of the real story, and not very good when it comes to detail. Thank you for the support, and God bless you.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Mandy!
ReplyDeleteI'm the mother of a teenage girl with epilepsy and she has been struggling with seizures for years. She has been on many meds, etc, and she is planning to pursue VNS surgery as our last hope. I found your blog (when researching VNS for my daughter) and passed it along to her.
She feels so alone with this frustrating condition and I know that's something you understand. Reading your post has helped her immensely (and me, to be honest!) She sees that she is not at all alone dealing with the *&%$# that comes with having daily seizures. It's okay to be angry and frustrated... and tired and grumpy...
Thank you for your courage in posting your story. Your honesty is so appreciated. Please keep up the great work!
I hope you have more good days than bad this summer!
I am glad to hear that my blog has helped you in some way. I wish I had more to say about the VNS so far but as you probably know now, it takes some time to see results and it isn't a quick fix in any way. God bless your daughter and I pray that she will find a way to get rid of those seizures. It is a very hard thing to deal with, especially in your teenage years. This is something I have been dealing with since I was about 12-13 years old and it isn't easy. Just the worry that you can't even go out with friends because you might have a seizure is enough to scare anyone. Please let her know that her life isn't over and that she has a long one ahead of her. It takes time, but as time goes on she will become stronger and the seizures will lessen once she finds a good medication and starts a steady routine (which is very important with Epilepsy). She needs lots of sleep, a good breakfast and a lot of rest during the day. Good luck and feel free to drop into my blog as time goes on to see how my VNS is working out. It works differently for everyone, so even if it doesn't work for me it might be perfect for your daughter. Don't hesitate to ask any questions!
ReplyDelete- Mandy Krzywonski
Mandy,
ReplyDeleteI feel you! I got diagnosed when I was in fourth grade. Although mine were not as severe, no one knew why I was having them. I was also passed around by a few doctors and many test! I was also put on trileptal! I am down to one seizure a year now and by February will be my first free year! [knock on wood]
I loved reading your experience; some of them really relate to me!
your awesome!
Sincerely,
Jen
Thank you for reading my blog, and cheers to you for being seizure free. If you believe, anything is possible. I am so happy to see that someone has been seizure free for a year. A girl just wrote to me a few weeks ago telling me an amazing story like yours, except she had an entire half of her brain taken out. I was so touched by her story. She still continues to be able to talk, read, write, and draw. It's so amazing how the human brain works. I am glad that my stories have touched you in some way, and I will keep you in my prayers so that you may be seizure free for the rest of your life.
ReplyDelete- Mandy
Dear Mandy,
ReplyDeleteIts great to see you living your life to the fullest inspite of epilepsy and guiding others about it. My Brother is 18 years old and was diagnosed with epilepsy and minor deformity in the left side of his brain at the age of 4 . We have seen many doctors but medication has never produced any significant effect. His condition has caused him a lot of problems in learning so he had difficulty in coping with the regular stressors of school. So my parents decided to hire a tutor. I wanted to ask you if you have any advice on a suitable career for him that he can excel at because he is not sure about what path to pursue. He is good at math and painting and technical stuff like assembling parts etc. I would be happy if you advise me on this. Thanks a lot and may Allah bless you.
Sameen
Karachi, Pakistan
Hello Sameen, I have a lot to say in my comment back to you, so I'll tell you what. Please come back and check the home page of my blog and I will have a special blog just for you and your brother. Also, please, both of you feel free to e-mail me personally at MandyKrzywonski@yahoo.com if you ever need someone to talk to about the Epilepsy. I've talked to patients, doctors, activists, etc. from all over the world and I know a lot more things about this condition than I did when I wrote this first blog and I would love to share anything that might help you and your brother in any way. God bless you!
ReplyDeleteYour friend,
Mandy Krzywonski